Monday, October 27, 2008

Cheating!!!!



Cheating (also called gulling) is an act of lying, deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition. Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one's own interest, and often at the expense of others. Cheating implies the breaking of rules.


The term "cheating" is less applicable to the breaking of laws, as illegal activities are referred to by specific legal terminology such as fraud or corruption. Cheating is a primordial economic act: getting more for less, often used when referring to marital infidelity.With regard to human relationships, couples tend to expect sexual monogamy of each other. If so, then cheating commonly refers to forms of infidelity, particularly adultery.


However, there are other divisions of infidelity, which may be emotional. Cheating by thinking of, touching and talking with someone you are attracted to may be equally damaging to one of the parties. Emotional cheating may be correlated to that of emotional abuse, which to date is treated as seriously in a court of law as physical cheating. With the expansion of understanding of other cultures, there is a wide spectrum of what cheating means.



When in a committed relationship, the definition of cheating is based on both parties opinions and both parties may redefine their understanding to match the party at an either lower or higher extreme of this definition. Some couples simply believe that cheating constitutes doing anything, whether verbal or physical, that one would not do in front of their significant other. Such examples would include: expressing attraction to another person, electronic communications, kissing, making out, and sexual relations.

I dont agree with cheating. I think you should treat someone the way you want 2 be treated. If you have to go and cheat on somebody you shouldnt be in a relationship at all.





2 comments:

Mahogany Bliss ♥ said...

I think cheating is wrong in general.Not just cheating in the sense of infidelity, but just cheating in general.But I don't agree with you saying thinking about cheating is cheating.I believe that people should think before they act and most people say they will do things but they won't actually do it.You have the capability to think about the consequences that will come if you do decide to cheat, and most people don't think about it until after the fact.So I think people should think throughly about what they're going to do before they do it.

~*flyboi*~ said...

yea i cheated a couple of times, but it wasnt intentionaly. idont kiss and tell, but people end up finding out anyways, but who cares we young i can do whatever i want.lol

 
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